Message 10 Aug, 3.40 pm
1) I told you real Hindus. They have the highest tolerance to bear difficulties. They don't get irritated like others. They will think and find an amicable way to solve any problem. If you don't have tolerance, you are not a real Hindu.
2) Negativity in a human being forces him to get disturbed naturally. If we are positive in our thinking, speech, action and also adopt a positive way of life, others won't get disturbed by us. If someone is getting disturbed, there must be some reason which we probably claim as our right .
3) Becoming positive is not easy. In every walk of our life, we should have positivity. If you have responsibilities, becoming fully positive is very difficult. To make others to fulfill your desires and needs, your positive approach may not help always. Better not to have expectations about others. Don't use others to fulfill your desires unless they have understood you thoroughly.
4) It's not a Hindu or Muslim who gets disturbed by others. It's the way of life we adopt in our life. No-one disturbs a sadhu. The almighty protects only sadhus and not others. Sadhus are available in every religion. Their beliefs regarding God may be different but their quality of life will be the same.
5) To become a sadhu, you have to give freedom to others. YOU should not have any complaints. Patience and tolerance is very much required.
6) Becoming sadhu is equivalent to becoming Chivam.
7) You never ask, how to become a sadhu. Why?
Q- Dear Master,
Are these what we have to practice to become a Sadhu or what we gain after becoming one?
For example, do we have to start rejecting existing material comforts one by one? Or, can we make use of what we have and try not to accumulate anything new?
Master- You can become Sadhu only after completion of your materialistic life. You have to wait.
No religion teaches its followers to hate others who don't believe in their god. Most religions promote tolerance, understanding, and respect for other beliefs and faiths. However, some interpretations or extremist groups may distort religious teachings to justify intolerance or violence.
Q- Materialistic life may never get completed when one's goal/aspiration is connected with the materialistic world or when one seeks happiness (For example, I want to pursue/achieve that/this)
Dear Master, I think that people who want to become a Sadhu should set that as their life's goal. Then, when one is capable of living on his own i.e when one can manage his/her basic needs for living (after education and employment), practice of Chivality can be intensified/ should be given maximum time.
This is because it is not possible for one to live away from the Materialistic world at current times.
(That is why Chivality is prescribed by the Master in the first place)?
Master-Chivality says you have to live in this materialistic world without getting affected. You get affected because of affection. Materialistic things should be related to the brain and body and not to the mind. The feeling should be as if you are in the non materialistic world.
Q-Dear Master
This is what difficult to practice since we are so much dependent on materialistic world for each and everything. How to restrict it to brain and body without affecting mind ?
Master-As long as your negativity is there in your mind, your mind can't be detached from the materialistic world. A continuous cleansing process is required to get rid of the negativity. You can experience and introspect yourself when your negativity is getting reduced.