### Spiritual Training: The Transformation from Human to Divine
Chivality teaches us to recognise our true identity as Spirit and gradually transform our way of living from the human level towards the Divine.
### 1\. What is spiritual training?
Spiritual training is the process of learning to live like a Spirit rather than being controlled by the qualities of the human mind.
Within Chivality, Spirit is understood as formless. It is not something that can be identified by looking at the physical body. The body has a visible form, but the Spirit within is understood to be beyond physical form.
The greatest difficulty is recognising your true identity. Throughout life, you identify yourself with your body, mind, emotions, relationships, possessions and responsibilities. Gradually, you begin to believe that these things define who you are.
But spiritual training invites you to investigate a deeper question:
“Am I merely a human being with a body and mind, or is my true identity something beyond them?”
This recognition does not happen simply by reading spiritual books or listening to spiritual teachings. It requires regular practice, observation and a gradual change in perception.
### An analogy: The actor and the character
Imagine an actor playing the role of a king in a drama. While performing, the actor wears royal clothes, speaks like a king and behaves according to the role. However, the actor's true identity is not the character being portrayed.
Similarly, within the understanding of Chivality, the human identity is like a role played through the body and mind, while Spirit represents the deeper identity beyond that role.
Spiritual training helps you understand the difference between the role you perform in life and the deeper identity you seek to realise.
This does not mean neglecting your responsibilities. An actor must perform the role properly, and a spiritual practitioner must also fulfil the responsibilities of human life. The difference is that the practitioner gradually learns not to make those responsibilities the whole definition of who they are.
### 2\. Why are Spirits different from one another?
Although human bodies share a broadly similar physical structure, human beings differ considerably in their thoughts, emotions, behaviour, attitudes and qualities.
One person may be loving and patient, while another may be fearful, angry or jealous. Some people remain peaceful in difficult situations, while others become disturbed by even small disappointments.
Within the Chivality framework, these differences can be understood through the different qualities associated with the Spirit's present condition and its relationship with the human mind.
The term Spirit is therefore not used to suggest that everyone already lives in the same spiritual condition. Different people may have different levels of attachment, negativity, awareness and inner peace.
Spiritual training focuses on transforming these qualities rather than comparing yourself with others.
The important question is not whether another person is more spiritual than you. It is whether your own inner condition is gradually changing.
### 3\. What does it mean to live like a Spirit?
Within Chivality, a Divine Spirit is understood as one that is no longer dominated by the ordinary cycle of suffering and enjoyment created by desires, expectations, attachments and negative qualities.
Ordinary human happiness often depends on external circumstances. You may feel happy when something happens according to your expectations and unhappy when it does not.
For example:
* When someone appreciates you, you feel happy.
* When someone criticises you, you may feel hurt.
* When you obtain something you desire, you feel satisfied.
* When you lose something you value, you may experience fear or sorrow.
In each case, your inner condition is influenced by what happens outside you.
Chivality aims at a different condition: an inner peace and bliss that are not entirely dependent on external circumstances. This is described in the tradition as Divine joy or bliss.
A Divine condition does not mean that the body can never experience pain or that a practitioner will never encounter difficulties. Rather, the spiritual aim is to reduce the mind's domination by fear, expectations, attachment and negativity, so that difficulties do not destroy inner peace.
### An analogy: The sky and the weather
The weather changes constantly. Sometimes the sky is bright, sometimes cloudy, and sometimes there is a storm.
If you focus only on the weather, you may think that the entire sky is disturbed whenever a storm appears. But the weather is changing within the vastness of the sky.
Similarly, human emotions and circumstances continually change. Spiritual training teaches you not to allow every passing thought, emotion or external event to determine your entire inner condition.
The analogy does not mean that emotions must be denied or suppressed. It means learning to observe them without being completely controlled by them.
Within Chivality, the Divine condition represents the deeper peace that remains when the dominance of these changing qualities gradually diminishes.
### 4\. Why is spiritual training necessary?
Knowing about Spirit is different from living with the awareness of Spirit.
You may understand a teaching intellectually, agree with it and explain it to others. Yet, when someone criticises you, your anger may immediately arise. When your expectations are disappointed, your peace may disappear. When you face uncertainty, fear and worry may take control.
This shows the difference between intellectual understanding and practical transformation.
Spiritual training gives you repeated opportunities to work on this difference.
Its purpose is to help you gradually:
* Reduce unnecessary desires and expectations.
* Recognise and manage fear, anxiety, worry, anger and jealousy.
* Reduce excessive attachment to people, possessions and outcomes.
* Develop a more peaceful and balanced response to difficult situations.
* Remember the Master instead of remaining continuously absorbed in your own thoughts.
* Shift your perception from a purely human-centred identity towards the Divine understanding taught in Chivality.
These changes take time. They cannot be achieved merely by deciding that you will no longer be disturbed.
Spiritual transformation is a gradual process of practice, not simply a declaration of intention.
### 5\. Why must spiritual training have a fixed place in your schedule?
Everyday life contains many responsibilities. You may have work, family commitments, household duties, appointments and other necessary activities.
You schedule time for these activities because you recognise their importance. If you leave everything to chance, some important responsibilities may never be completed.
Spiritual training also requires deliberate time and attention.
If you practise only when you happen to be free, your practice may repeatedly be postponed. There will always be another task, another responsibility or another reason to begin tomorrow.
Therefore, Chivality asks practitioners to make spiritual practice a regular and unavoidable part of daily life, alongside their other necessary responsibilities.
### An analogy: Watering a plant
A plant does not grow to its full potential because someone waters it once and then forgets about it. It needs regular care over time.
Some days, the plant may appear unchanged. Yet, with consistent care, its roots grow deeper, its stem becomes stronger and new leaves appear.
Spiritual training works similarly as a practice. A single session may not produce a dramatic change. But regular practice creates repeated opportunities to develop awareness, strengthen remembrance and change habitual responses.
Missing one session does not mean that all progress is lost. The important thing is to return to the practice and maintain consistency.
### 6\. The principal methods of spiritual training in Chivality
Chivality provides several practices that support the gradual transformation from the human condition towards the Divine.
1\. Attending Sunday Chivsangh regularly
Sunday Chivsangh provides an opportunity to participate in collective silence, remain connected with the Chivality community and receive the Master's guidance. Regular attendance helps keep spiritual practice active in everyday life.
2\. Practising Silentation at home
Sit comfortably in the morning and evening, close your eyes and practise Silentation by remembering the Master's physical form and drawing your attention away from continuous thinking. The purpose is to cultivate relaxation, silence and inner steadiness.
3\. Constant remembrance of the Master
Keep the Master in your remembrance while carrying out ordinary activities. When fear, worry, anger or other difficult emotions arise, return your attention to that remembrance. Within Chivality, the Master's energy is regarded as the foundation supporting this inner transformation.
4\. Conducting and attending Mouna Mantapa programmes
Conducting Mouna Mantapa programmes and attending programmes organised in other abhyasis' homes provide opportunities to deepen the practice of silence and strengthen participation in the Chivality path.
These practices support one another. Sunday Chivsangh provides regular collective participation, home Silentation builds personal discipline, remembrance keeps the Master present in daily life, and Mouna Mantapa programmes offer further opportunities for silence.
The value of these practices does not depend only on the amount of time spent. Their purpose is to bring about a meaningful change in the practitioner's inner condition and everyday behaviour.
### 7\. How does this training transform human perception into Divine perception?
At the beginning, a person may view almost everything through personal likes and dislikes, expectations, fears and attachments.
Gradually, with practice, the person may begin to see situations differently.
Consider an example. Someone speaks harshly to you.
At the human level: You may immediately feel insulted, become angry and want to retaliate.
During spiritual training: You may notice the anger arising, remember the Master and pause before reacting.
With deeper practice: You may become more capable of understanding the situation without taking every word personally. You can respond firmly when necessary without allowing anger to dominate your mind.
Towards Divine perception: Within the Chivality teaching, the aim is to reduce the dominance of personal likes, dislikes and negative qualities, allowing greater peace and less disturbance.
This progression is not necessarily immediate or perfectly linear. A practitioner may respond peacefully in one situation and struggle in another. What matters is continued practice and honest observation.
### An analogy: A pair of coloured glasses
Imagine wearing glasses with a strong red tint. Everything you see appears reddish. If you wear them for a long time, you may begin to assume that the world itself has that colour.
Now imagine gradually removing that tint. You begin to see things more clearly, without the same colour distortion.
Similarly, fear, jealousy, anger, expectations and attachments can colour your perception of people and situations. When these influences become weaker, your perception can become clearer and less reactive.
In Chivality, spiritual training aims to go beyond merely changing individual reactions. It seeks a deeper transformation of identity and perception, from the human mind towards the Divine and ultimately towards Chivam.
### 8\. Why should you not postpone spiritual training?
Life is uncertain, and physical death is inevitable. Therefore, Chivality teaches that spiritual training should not be postponed indefinitely.
If you repeatedly say, “I will practise when my responsibilities are finished,” you may find that new responsibilities continue to arise. Years can pass without the consistent practice you intended to undertake.
Within the Chivality framework, becoming established in the Divine condition and progressing towards Chivam require sustained practice. If that practice is continually postponed, the intended spiritual transformation may remain incomplete during one's lifetime.
The purpose of this teaching is to encourage sincerity and consistency, not to create panic or despair.
You do not need to abandon your family, work or necessary responsibilities. Instead, organise your life so that spiritual training receives a dependable place in it.
Do not wait for a perfect time to begin. Begin with the time available to you, and practise regularly.
### 9\. How does spiritual training help during material life and beyond?
Chivality understands spiritual training as relevant to both the life we experience now and the spiritual journey understood to continue beyond physical death.
During material life, regular practice can help you respond more calmly to difficulties, reduce unnecessary mental suffering and avoid being completely controlled by fear, expectations and attachments. These are practical aims that can be observed in everyday behaviour.
Within Chivality's spiritual understanding, the training also prepares the practitioner for the spiritual journey beyond physical death by gradually reducing identification with the human mind and strengthening the pursuit of the Divine condition and Chivam.
The claims about existence and experience after death belong to the spiritual framework of Chivality; they are not matters that can be established through ordinary observation during life.
Nevertheless, the central practical message remains clear: cultivate peace and awareness now rather than waiting for a future opportunity.
Spiritual practice should help you live more peacefully and responsibly, not make you neglect your health, safety or essential responsibilities.
### 10\. The ultimate purpose of Chivality training
The purpose of spiritual training is not simply to become a person who attends programmes, sits in silence or speaks about spirituality.
Its deeper purpose is to transform the way you perceive yourself and the world.
In the Chivality understanding, the progression is from identification with the human mind, through the gradual development of Divine perception, towards Chivam.
As practice deepens, the practitioner seeks to reduce the hold of negative qualities, excessive attachments, fear and expectations. Regular Silentation and remembrance of the Master form the foundation of this process.
The transformation cannot be rushed merely through intellectual understanding. It requires time, discipline, patience and consistency.
Every day offers an opportunity to practise. Every difficult situation offers an opportunity to observe the mind. Every return to remembrance offers an opportunity to strengthen the path.
The question is not simply how much spiritual knowledge you possess. The more important question is how far that knowledge is changing your inner condition and your way of living.
Make spiritual training as important as your other essential daily activities. Continue practising with patience, and allow the transformation to develop gradually.
Within Chivality, this is the path of moving from human identification towards Divine awareness and ultimately towards Chivam.
Namachivayam.
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### The True Purpose of Being with the Master
There are two varieties of people who love the Master and wish to remain close to him. Although both may have genuine love and respect for the Master, their intentions can be different.
The first variety seeks the Master to detach themselves from the bondage of the materialistic world and attain liberation, or Mukthi. The second variety seeks the Master because they experience peace, tranquillity, happiness, and comfort in his presence. Both may enjoy being with the Master, but they are not necessarily moving towards the same destination.
Within Chivality, the ultimate purpose of being with the Master is not merely to experience peace but to attain liberation from the attachments and bondages of the materialistic world. Peace is a valuable experience along the path, but liberation is the goal.
### 1\. Enjoying the Master and Attaining Liberation
People naturally seek the company of someone who gives them peace and happiness. When they sit with the Master, listen to his teachings, or practise Silentation, they may experience relief from their worries, fears, anxieties, and daily pressures. They begin to feel that the Master is a source of comfort and tranquillity.
This is beneficial, but an important question must be asked: What happens when they leave the Master's presence and return to their ordinary lives?
If their minds again become completely occupied with family attachments, expectations, possessions, relationships, and personal desires, their peaceful experience has not yet brought about the inner freedom that Chivality seeks to develop.
They may love the Master deeply while continuing to remain bound by the very attachments from which they wish to become free.
The first variety, therefore, must go beyond enjoying the peace received from the Master. They must use that peace to transform their minds, reduce their attachments, and gradually free themselves from the bondage of worldly involvement.
The Master is not merely someone who makes you feel peaceful; in Chivality, he guides you towards the liberation that lies beyond your attachments.
### 2\. Why Is Detachment So Difficult?
Most people understand the importance of detachment intellectually. They know that possessions, relationships, positions, and material comforts cannot provide permanent satisfaction. They may also understand that everything in the materialistic world is subject to change.
Yet, when it comes to their own lives, detachment becomes difficult.
Why?
Because understanding the need for detachment is different from becoming detached. The mind develops strong attachments through years of living, loving, expecting, fearing, and identifying itself with people and things.
A person may say, "I want Mukthi," while the mind continues to say, "I must have my family as I want them to be. I must protect everything I possess. My expectations must be fulfilled. I cannot live without these relationships."
This creates an inner conflict. The intention is liberation, but the mind continues to hold on to bondage.
### An analogy: A bird inside a cage
Imagine a bird that has lived inside a cage for many years. One day, the cage door is opened. The bird now has the freedom to fly into the open sky, but it remains inside because the cage has become familiar and comfortable.
The open door represents the opportunity for liberation. The cage represents attachment. The bird's familiarity with the cage represents the mind's dependence on its established relationships, desires, and expectations.
The bird cannot experience the freedom of the open sky merely by appreciating the person who opened the door. It must eventually fly out.
Similarly, a practitioner cannot attain Mukthi merely by loving the Master, sitting near him, or appreciating the peace he provides. The practitioner must also work towards freedom from the inner bondages that keep the mind attached.
This does not mean that one must stop loving one's family or neglect responsibilities. Detachment means reducing possessiveness, dependence, fear, and the expectation that the world must always satisfy the mind. A person can continue to care for family members and fulfil responsibilities while developing greater inner freedom.
### 3\. The Master in Chivality Has a Specific Purpose
In Chivality, the Master is not simply a companion, a source of emotional support, or someone who makes life more comfortable. The Master serves a deeper purpose: guiding the practitioner towards Chivam and liberation from worldly bondage.
The Master's teachings, presence, energy, and guidance are intended to help the practitioner transform the mind. Through Silentation and constant remembrance of the Master, the practitioner gradually learns to reduce unnecessary thinking, negativity, fear, anxiety, expectations, and possessive attachments.
The purpose is not to become permanently dependent on the physical presence of the Master for peace. Rather, the practitioner must internalise the Master's guidance and allow the Master's energy, as understood within Chivality, to become the foundation of spiritual practice.
Consider a teacher who teaches a student how to swim. The student may love the teacher for providing safety and encouragement. However, the purpose of the teacher is not merely to keep the student standing beside the swimming pool. It is to help the student learn to swim.
If the student remains beside the teacher indefinitely because that is where the student feels safe, the actual purpose of the training remains unfulfilled.
Likewise, the Master guides the practitioner towards a condition of inner freedom. The practitioner must apply the teachings rather than remain satisfied with the comfort of the Master's presence.
### 4\. Why Do Practitioners Forget Their Purpose?
One of the greatest challenges in spiritual practice is remembering the original intention.
A person may begin practising Chivality with a sincere desire for Mukthi. In the beginning, the purpose may be clear. The person wants to understand the Self, overcome worldly bondage, and attain the liberated condition of Chivam.
As practice continues, however, the person begins to enjoy the peace, affection, companionship, and security associated with the Master. Gradually, these experiences may become the main reason for continuing the practice.
The original destination is then forgotten, even though the person continues to attend programmes, practise Silentation, listen to teachings, and speak about liberation.
This is similar to a traveller who begins a journey to reach a distant destination but becomes so comfortable at a beautiful resting place that the traveller no longer wishes to continue.
The resting place is pleasant, but it is not the destination.
In the same way, peace and tranquillity are valuable, but the practitioner must not confuse the peace experienced during spiritual practice with the completion of the spiritual journey.
Therefore, every practitioner should periodically ask:
* Am I practising Chivality merely to feel peaceful, or am I working towards liberation?
* Are my attachments and expectations gradually reducing?
* Am I becoming less dependent on worldly circumstances for my inner peace?
* Am I sincerely applying the Master's teachings in daily life?
* Is my remembrance of the Master helping me move towards Chivam?
These questions help the practitioner remain faithful to the original purpose.
### 5\. Complete Attachment to the Master and Surrender to Chivam
Within Chivality, complete attachment to the Master and surrender to Chivam are understood as essential to the path of Mukthi. This is not ordinary attachment based on possession, emotional dependence, or personal expectations. It is a spiritual commitment in which the practitioner places the Master's guidance at the centre of life and gradually relinquishes the ego's insistence on controlling everything.
Surrender can be practised in three ways:
* Surrender of the body: Using one's physical abilities in accordance with the Master's guidance and for meaningful service.
* Surrender of the mind: Gradually releasing unnecessary thoughts, negative qualities, possessive attachments, and personal expectations.
* Surrender of the intellect: Learning to understand and apply the Master's teachings without allowing pride, doubt, or self-interest to distort their purpose.
The objective is not to abandon one's practical responsibilities or stop making sensible decisions. It is to reduce the dominance of the ego and the mind's compulsive attachment to worldly outcomes.
### An analogy: A river merging into the ocean
A river travels through many landscapes. Along the way, it encounters rocks, bends, valleys, and obstacles. Eventually, it reaches the ocean and merges into it.
Before merging, the river maintains its own apparent identity and course. After merging, its separate identity as a river is no longer maintained in the same way.
Similarly, the practitioner begins the spiritual journey with a strong sense of individual identity: I, me, mine, my desires, my expectations, and my achievements.
Through the practice of Chivality, the practitioner gradually reduces the dominance of this separate identity and learns to surrender to Chivam.
Within the Chivality understanding, Mukthi is not simply the achievement of a peaceful state. It is the dissolution of the bondage that sustains the separate, ego-centred identity.
The analogy does not mean that the physical person disappears or that family responsibilities must be abandoned. It illustrates the spiritual understanding that the sense of separate ownership and identity gradually gives way to surrender.
### 6\. Remember the Destination, Not Just the Experience
The most important lesson is that loving the Master and receiving peace from him are not the same as fulfilling the purpose of Chivality.
Love for the Master should become a means of transformation. Peace should become the foundation for deeper practice. Remembrance should help reduce the mind's restless involvement with desires and expectations. Surrender should gradually free the practitioner from the bondage of the ego.
A practitioner should not measure progress only by how peaceful they feel while sitting with the Master. They should also examine how they respond to difficulties, how strongly they cling to expectations, how they handle changing circumstances, and whether their inner freedom is increasing.
The real test of practice is not simply the peace experienced in the Master's presence, but the ability to carry that inner stability into ordinary life without being continually controlled by attachments and expectations.
The Master is the guide, the practice is the means, and Mukthi is the destination.
Do not make the Master's peaceful presence the final destination when the purpose of the journey is liberation.
Love the Master not merely because he gives you peace, but because his guidance points you towards Chivam. Practise not merely to experience tranquillity, but to transform the mind. Surrender not merely to feel protected, but to release the ego's hold on your life.
Always remember why you began the journey.
The purpose of Chivality is not simply to live peacefully with the Master. It is to use the Master's guidance and energy to move towards liberation from worldly bondage and realise Chivam.
Namachivayam.